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I'm starting to think that the ideology reification machine might have been a... bad idea?


OpenAI is featuring a "Looksmaxxing GPT" that provides "PSL ratings" for photos. It will rate people as "subhuman", and advise men to get invasive procedures like jaw surgery to "increase their sexual market value" among women, who it describes as "hypergamous by nature".

"PSL" is short for "PUAhate Sluthate Lookism", a group of three manosphere/incel communities. PUAHate came to public attention after Elliot Rodger's 2014 mass shooting in Isla Vista, California, when it came out that he frequented the platform to talk about his "incel" status.

After uploading a photo, this GPT gives ratings like "Subhuman", "Low Normie / High Subhuman Borderline (White)", or "high-tier normie, borderline Chadlite".

It proactively offers to provide "hardmaxxing" (medical interventions like plastic surgery) or "softmaxxing" advice (grooming, fitness training, etc).




Friends! Tell me about indie #TTRPG hidden gems. I've been watching a lot of Quinns Quest and Cozy RPG Reviews, as well as reading the design thoughts of Jay Dragon, and I just want to gobble up a bunch of excellent, innovative games.
in reply to Spencer

These are more like "required reading" than "hidden gems":

- Lady Blackbird
- Primetime Adventures
- My Life With Master
- Cortex Prime
- Fiasco
- Sorcerer
- Blades in the Dark
- Wushu: the Ancient Art of Action Roleplaying
- Index Card RPG
- Burning Wheel
- Mechanical Oryx
- 3:16 Carnage Among the Stars
- Belly of the Beast
- Anima Prime
- The Spire
- Trophy
- Legacy: Life Among the Ruins
- Monsters & Magic
- Ars Magica
- Amber Diceless Roleplaying

in reply to Lester Ward

Interesting! I recognize some of these, like Blades in the Dark, Fiasco, and The Spire, but not all. Mind sharing what you love about a couple of them?
in reply to Spencer

Many advance the “technology” of RPGs, solving common problems that show up at the table, in a new way.

Many contain mechanical procedures for GMs, instead of vague advice on the “art” of running a game.

Some are examples of “coherency”, where the game has an opinion of what it is trying to do, and is laser focused on making that happen at the table, removing everything that doesn't do that.

One is only 200 words, but uses mechanical incentives better than any game before 2000.

in reply to Spencer

Really great games are often built around encoding some key insight about how RPGs work into play. Some on this list do that.

Most games are lucky to have one such insight. One game not on my list, Apocalypse World, has at least three, which is why it took over indie gaming for a while.




We went camping over the weekend, and the night we got in, I was excited to notice this thing on the ceiling of the restroom—an infrared heater panel!

I've been curious to experience these since learning about them. They definitely make sense as energy-efficient heating for a state park restroom: heat people, not space.

in reply to genehack

Yeah, it was on while I was there. It was nice! Satisfyingly warm. I've heard someone describe it as warm like sun shining on you, and that's apt.



The Horrors are swarming, and they sure are numerous.

But here—let me cast us a quick spell of reprieve. Let's make a small, temporary oasis together before we venture back out into the howling winds.

You can help us weave our orb of fireglow, if you wish. Find your center, then join us in the comments with your answer to this question:

What moments have brought you joy lately?

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Watching my 8th grader (and their peers) in the final choir and theater performances of the school year. These kids have all grown so much and are so talented. I'm really excited to get to watch some of them (including mine) learn and grow even more over the next four years in high school. It's truly a delight.
in reply to Local Dad, Ben Hamill

I've only had two years of experience, and god, watching kids grow up is incredible.
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friendica (DFRN) - Link to source
Spencer
Oh delightful! What arts and crafts have you been enjoying?



Yo Mastodon users, is there a way to go from a specific file on the "media" tab of a user's profile to the original post?
in reply to Spencer

@Spencer Yes, bring up the media, there’s an “external link” icon you can tap/click to the original post.


I'm in the middle of a six-week crash course to become part of my city's Community Emergency Response Team, or #CERT. CERT is a program backed by FEMA that trains civilian volunteers to be disaster responders, with basic #preparedness, search and rescue, and other relevant skills.

This has been a really fun experience, and I recommend it to anyone in the US whose local municipality offers it. Given how the federal government is currently being dismantled, if you're at all interested, I recommend taking the course sooner rather than later. Don't know if FEMA is going to exist much longer.

More on my experience in a thread...

in reply to Spencer

Anyway, to avoid a long digression on Cascadia: it's gonna be bad. Especially if the federal government's emergency response apparatus has been gutted and sold for parts.

So! CERT training is a way to stem the bleeding a little, and to feel more empowered to help in case of disaster, instead of only victimized.



Do any #Friendica and #Hugo users have a strategy for automatically or semi-automatically cross-posting content from their site to Friendica?

#indieweb #POSSE #gohugo

in reply to Spencer

Scratch that, I read the manual and enabled the setting in the admin panel that allowed this option to show up. Thanks!


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uspol, body horror metaphor

This, weirdly, feels to me like a sibling to the recent news that crypto peddlers want the Trump White House to create a "strategic crypto reserve", which would, of course, serve a purpose completely contrary to what a national strategic reserve is supposed to do.

It is the aesthetic of populism, its flayed face worn like a mask by its killer.



Dear Washington State:

Did somebody just, like, poach all the reflectors from the highway signs along I-5 North? Hardly any sign is legible between Portland and Olympia because they're missing so many letters.



Okay, so, I'm curious.

Who else has noticed that Alton Brown has, 100%, without a doubt, no-two-ways-about-it dom energy?

in reply to Spencer

did you ever watch cutthroat kitchen? It’s all over that.


#3Dmodeling #PartDesign #FreeCAD community, I could use your help!

I have these two speakers, which came in their own plastic housing. I want to use them as part of a bigger device, in a 3D-printed enclosure. However, I cannot figure out how best to secure them in place.

As you can see, at each corner of the speaker, there is what looks like a mounting hole, so I was initially thinking of driving screws through two of them into either a threaded receptacle or a captive nut. However, there is very little horizontal space (my calipers say less than 0.5mm) surrounding the hole, where the flat of a screw head might gain purchase, so I don't think this is a viable option.

What other ideas do you have for securing these speakers in place inside a 3D-printed enclosure?

in reply to Spencer

i would print big 'washers' if you will. So that they fill the holes and create a distance for screws.
in reply to Spencer

locating spikes through those holes, over hanging clip to secure in place.


Really living this new podcast miniseries by @Paris Marx and Tech Won't Save Us, on data centers and their catastrophic effects.

(But as an Oregonian: Paris, "The Dalles" rhymes with "pals", not "balls"!)



I previously installed the .deb version of Firefox on my #Ubuntu desktop and did my best to switch my .desktop files and move my profile, because of a bug in the snap.

Somehow, the .desktop files I deleted have returned, and running firefox, which was previously successfully launching the .deb, is back to trying to launch the snap.

Whaaaaaaaat is this. Fucking stop.

in reply to Spencer

@Spencer Ubuntu does some crap where it puts firefox in a snap in apt, yeah
in reply to Spencer

Yeah they seem to have did the same when it comes to #Ubuntu Server and snaps.


Oooh, it's heating up!

Another product has entered the #HomeAssistant #VoiceAssistant ring, this one from FutureProofHomes. They advertise 4 microphones, a NeoPixel LED ring, music playback, 4 buttons (including a hardware mute), and a couple general-purpose sensors (humidity, temp, lux). The HAT can be attached to a Raspberry Pi or their Core Board, which contains an ESP32 chip.

To be honest, that's more or less my ideal feature list for a voice assistant satellite, and the form factor is great. I'd be shocked if Lewis from Everything Smart Home didn't also have his own device in the works, and of course, Nabu Casa is developing their in-house version, so between these and the ReSpeaker Lite, we're suddenly looking at 3-4 local-only voice assistant kits on the market by the end of the year.

It's an exciting time in the local #SmartHome community!

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in reply to Spencer

Good. I played with the ESP S3-box thing, and it just wasn’t good enough to be usable. I think it was a problem with the microphone quality. Oddly, using the tiny M5Stack Echo gave better results for me. In the end I put them all back in the “maybe this will work in the future” drawer and went back to the Google speakers to control stuff.
in reply to ZS

I had largely the same experience with the ESP32-S3-BOX-3. Cute proof of concept, but nowhere near reliable enough for regular usage.

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Iiiiinteresting. Seeed Studio, who make a pretty ubiquitous dual microphone/audio-out array called ReSpeaker, have announced a new array that can be used with an #ESP32 microcontroller. They specifically advertise it as being compatible with #HomeAssistant.

At $35, this might be a model of what an affordable local-only voice assistant box could look like. I doubt the ESP32 has enough resources to be used as a music streaming target (via something like Snapcast) at the same time, though.

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in reply to Alexey

Official hardware coming this year is confirmed! It was first reported (that I could find) by The Verge in April, and further commented on at the end of the Voice Chapter 7 livestream.
in reply to Spencer

Yes, I know, but the fact that seed studio will be producing it is inevitable.


The more I play with them, the more I just think #ESP32 devices are really neat.


Hey Netrunners, when you think of Classic NBN Shit, what comes to mind?

Not in gameplay, in flavor. Just NBN Things™, baybee.

#netrunner

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in reply to Spencer

Putting ads on the moon.

Whenever I see the real life companies doing like drone advertisements or whatever I’m like “that’s some nbn shit”

in reply to bdorfman

also: the orginal astroscript

(DC comics obviously an NBN subsidiary doing some stealth marketing for their business)

in reply to Spencer

The most likely real-world inevitability of all the corps. Ready Player One if IOI wins.


Man, I've had my #hamradio Technician license for something like two years, and I haven't even gotten on the air once during that time.

Just so much else going on in my life.

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in reply to Spencer

That shows that our hobby is near the top of the Maslow pyramid of needs.

First come many other important things.

Perhaps even other hobbies, if they immediately bring more joy (feeling joy or satisfaction is also more higher up than e.g. getting shelter and of food, or caring for offspring). Even sport is for many people higher in up, perhaps for it's health, endorphine release or social aspects.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow…



I'm surprised to discover that it's not easy to find caps for tactile switches that are made of, say, polished aluminum, or some other lightweight and cheap metal.

I'm scoping out materials for a #DIY #electronics project, and I'd love to have something with a slightly nicer feel than plastic.



Hey, fellow therapists and counselors of the Fediverse! Where are you at?

I'm low-key looking for a server where I can set up a professional profile, but I'm also just interested in saying hi. 👋🏻

#therapist #therapists #counseling

in reply to Spencer

you’re so welcome! I think connecting with other therapists is always a good thing to do.


my kingdom for a file-based #selfhosted wiki with Markdown support and a clean, modern UI 😭


When I upgrade my #HomeServer next, I'm going to be moving to a Docker Compose-based system rather than the current #YunoHost system I'm running. I have some learning ahead of me, since I'll need to brush up on port forwarding and DNS, and have never used Docker or Docker Compose, but as I've thought through the questions I want to answer for myself, I've been... a little surprised at how few lingering question marks I have.

Is it really going to be as simple to get going as I think? 🤔

in reply to Spencer

it will either be incredibly trivial or soul-crushing;y complicated.


"A new Home Assistant voice control hardware device running Home Assistant’s local smart home voice assistant is planned for release at the end of the year."

There it is!

#homeassistant #SmartHome

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Salem, Oregon politics; sarcastic exasperation
Oh good, looks like #SalemOR is now gonna have our own mini version of #Spokane's Mayor Woodward for a bit. Great.


Hey community! I'm looking for a #selfhosted alternative to Google Photos for my family. I'm interested in something with an easy to use UI, automatic face tagging, multi-user support (including shared albums and, if possible, automatically sharing photos of designated faces), and a good mobile app that supports automatic syncing with device photos.

I think I've narrowed the options to #NextCloud Memories and #LibrePhotos. Does anyone have any experience with using either as a Google Photos replacement? Can you speak to how you like them, how you decided on them, or anything that might help the choice?

in reply to Spencer

Hot damn, I was aware of Immich, but didn't realize it was this popular! My concern with Immich right now is its warning that it's still under heavy dev and shouldn't be relied on as a daily driver.
in reply to Spencer

I don't know if you're still looking, but #immich immich.app/ is a good looking solution that is being backed by Louis Rossman's. Billionaire Buddy as a #selfhosted #googlephotos #alternative


Dang, what a Thursday surprise: Home Assistant has released an application that seamlessly integrates with the HA platform and enables music playback from multiple streaming services (including a local media library or self-hosted music server) to multiple target devices.

I strongly suspect that in the next year, we'll see the Home Assistant team announcing their own, local-only smart speaker device: something that can integrate with Home Assistant, process spoken commands (using Voice Assistant), and play back music (using Music Assistant). It seems to be what the organization has been building toward.

#homeassistant #smarthome #selfhosted #SelfHosting

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in reply to Spencer

As it turns out, when I posted this, it had already been reported that Home Assistant plans to release their own local smart home assistant by the end of 2024, which makes my prediction much less impressive.

In my defense, I plead ignorance.



@Bonfire This is certainly just a minor quality-of-life thing, but does Bonfire support adding custom emoji/emoticons? If not presently, might it in the future?
in reply to Spencer

currently we support displaying custom emoji but adding your own is still to-do: github.com/bonfire-networks/bo…


a social network I knew implemented federation and then nobody could use the letter E
in reply to Spencer

federation? hard NO from me. the idea that someone else runs my server is just not okay with me.


I once saw one of those helpful single-purpose webpages, in the same family as the Motherfucking Website series, explaining that when you ask for technical support, you should ask for what you want to do instead of how you think you'll do it. It probably had some catchy name or phrase.

I can't find it now, though. Anyone happen to know what I'm talking about and have a link?

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in reply to Spencer

Not the site you’re looking for, but near and dear to my heart: nohello.net/
in reply to Spencer

how the FUCK did you dig up a 160 day old toot to reply to?

(This is me asking in amazement, to be clear.)

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in reply to genehack

It only took a couple of minutes of scrolling through my posts on my server. It was lunchtime and my daughter was napping. I was very motivated. 😅
in reply to Spencer

My first wife was a reference librarian, and early on explained to me the concept of the "reference interview”, which is how they handle this problem.

Customers come in asking about Y; a significant part of the reference librarian's job is playing Q&A to tease out the X that they actually *want* to know.



fucking ghouls
in reply to Spencer

Not that I never shop there—just that they particularly seem to want to cultivate the "liberal darling" image.
in reply to Spencer

@Spencer This rings true to me, the façade looks very progressive, I’ve only heard about their union-busting practices today from this thread.


Finally got my #3Dprinter back up and running, after a ridiculously complicated saga installing a BL-Touch probe.

My first test print failed due to what I think is under-extrusion, although I'm not certain of that.

God, I want to be done troubleshooting and just have a machine that works again.

#3Dprinting

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@Spencer Maybe the real 3D-printed treasure was all the fiddling we made along the way?


@HydroponicTrash It was great to hear you on It Could Happen Here! I saw the episode on my podcatcher and was like, "I think I know who this interview is with..."


Pet peeve: Podcasts with dramatic shifts in volume between segments.

I'm looking at you, S1E102 of Live Like the World is Dying.

in reply to Spencer

I envision a podcast where the editor thinks making it louder or softer is equivalent do putting a "bum bum BUUUUUUUUUUUUUMMMM!!!" sting in there. And wants to make sure the audience understands that this next segment is a real twist! 😜


@Bonfire Is there a target release date (or even a window) for 1.0? I'm planning to make some changes to my home server this year, and I'd love to install a release version of Bonfire as part of that.
in reply to Spencer

we’re working on the last few milestones towards 1.0 at the moment github.com/bonfire-networks/bo… and hope to have the RC1 (release candidate) ready soon, but the honest answer is “when it’s ready”


I have a lot of aspirations for 2024, but they all largely have to do with building things.

Learning how to make and repair instead of buy and replace feels like such an important set of skills at this stage in my (and the planet's) life.



When you ask a business for some form of compensation because they screwed up, how do you like to phrase it?

I'm realizing I hold back on doing this, usually simply settling for them doing what they were supposed to in the first place, because I don't have a script that works for me. I don't want to be a dick, but there are times when a business misses the mark enough that I want some form of making-it-right, and I don't quite know how to phrase that.

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@Spencer The way I've been doing is listing the exact issues and comparing them with the expectations based on an invoice or a reasonable time frame.

Here's my last emails in a support conversation that started about a coffee table with a foldout surface which mechanism failed 6 months in:

So far only small arms have fallen off from the lifting mechanism (on the other side too since I submitted this request). However, I couldn't find a way to secure them back in place since they don't use regular nuts and bolts.

Either I would need guidance on how to fasten the small arms again (both the one with the spring and the one without) or a complete replacement of the lifting mechanism if it isn't possible/wanted.

If neither are possible, I would like a significant refund, we were only able to fully enjoy this coffee table for less than a year which wasn't the plan for this piece of furniture.



I've got a bunch of hardware upgrades for my home server waiting to be installed, and I'm wondering if this is a good opportunity to switch from #YunoHost to a more hands-on system, like Proxmox + Docker.

Advantages: More flexibility in what I can host, not having to wait for apps to be packaged, ostensibly more control

Disadvantages: I haven't the slightest fucking clue how to set up or admin a server like that and don't even know where to start 😬

Can't say I'm eager to spend hours monkeying with configuration and trying to wrap my mind around networking, but I also would love to have more control over my server...

#SelfHosting

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