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@HydroponicTrash It was great to hear you on It Could Happen Here! I saw the episode on my podcatcher and was like, "I think I know who this interview is with..."


Pet peeve: Podcasts with dramatic shifts in volume between segments.

I'm looking at you, S1E102 of Live Like the World is Dying.

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I envision a podcast where the editor thinks making it louder or softer is equivalent do putting a "bum bum BUUUUUUUUUUUUUMMMM!!!" sting in there. And wants to make sure the audience understands that this next segment is a real twist! 😜


@Bonfire Is there a target release date (or even a window) for 1.0? I'm planning to make some changes to my home server this year, and I'd love to install a release version of Bonfire as part of that.
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we’re working on the last few milestones towards 1.0 at the moment github.com/bonfire-networks/bo… and hope to have the RC1 (release candidate) ready soon, but the honest answer is “when it’s ready”


I have a lot of aspirations for 2024, but they all largely have to do with building things.

Learning how to make and repair instead of buy and replace feels like such an important set of skills at this stage in my (and the planet's) life.



When you ask a business for some form of compensation because they screwed up, how do you like to phrase it?

I'm realizing I hold back on doing this, usually simply settling for them doing what they were supposed to in the first place, because I don't have a script that works for me. I don't want to be a dick, but there are times when a business misses the mark enough that I want some form of making-it-right, and I don't quite know how to phrase that.

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@Spencer The way I've been doing is listing the exact issues and comparing them with the expectations based on an invoice or a reasonable time frame.

Here's my last emails in a support conversation that started about a coffee table with a foldout surface which mechanism failed 6 months in:

So far only small arms have fallen off from the lifting mechanism (on the other side too since I submitted this request). However, I couldn't find a way to secure them back in place since they don't use regular nuts and bolts.

Either I would need guidance on how to fasten the small arms again (both the one with the spring and the one without) or a complete replacement of the lifting mechanism if it isn't possible/wanted.

If neither are possible, I would like a significant refund, we were only able to fully enjoy this coffee table for less than a year which wasn't the plan for this piece of furniture.



I've got a bunch of hardware upgrades for my home server waiting to be installed, and I'm wondering if this is a good opportunity to switch from #YunoHost to a more hands-on system, like Proxmox + Docker.

Advantages: More flexibility in what I can host, not having to wait for apps to be packaged, ostensibly more control

Disadvantages: I haven't the slightest fucking clue how to set up or admin a server like that and don't even know where to start 😬

Can't say I'm eager to spend hours monkeying with configuration and trying to wrap my mind around networking, but I also would love to have more control over my server...

#SelfHosting



decades from now, future anthropologists will be fascinated by the association between images of young women studying in front of a window and downtempo music


Today I pitched a name for a Jinteki agenda in the upcoming #Netrunner set that I think is rad as fuck.

If it makes it in, I'll let you know.



I just learned @Bonfire has topics on their roadmap, even if it's not for their 1.0 release.

This is a killer feature for me and I wish more social platforms had it. The fact that it's on their roadmap, along with circles for audience management, makes me very excited to check them out (once 1.0 is out and available for YunoHost).

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Holy shit it already has circles??? 🤯
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there's, like... not a day that goes by that I don't think about #Netrunner
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Hush, you (said with friendly affection).

I almost put an ironic "I'm not sure this is healthy" on the post, but I realized I don't want to play that game. Having thoughts and interests is fine and it's not harming anyone (including me) to think about something I enjoy.

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@Spencer Of course not, I was just riffing on the specific way you worded your original post!
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I figured as much! I was trying to contextualize without coming out swinging at you. 😊 No hard feelings on my end.
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The nice thing about that @spencer is #Netrunner rewards the obsession.

That, and the loads of really fun and nice people who share the obsession.



It never fails to amuse me when someone comes to a board games community with a post touting the passion-project game they've painstakingly designed over five years or whatever, they want to know how to get it published, and they get asked how playtesting has gone—

"What's playtesting?"

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I have discovered I don't know where the keys to my bike lock are. 😕


I've been working on building my own #Hugo static website for over a year. (Granted, it's the year I became a parent, and I've had a lot going on.) I want the satisfaction of a site I built by hand and understand intimately, but I'm also feeling the squeeze: I would like to have a website now, thank you—and I'm starting to reach the part of the project where I need to actually learn if I want to develop productively, instead of halfassedly copy-pasting things together and crossing my fingers.

Maybe this is my sign to turn to a simple off-the-shelf theme so I can get started and let the pressure off.

#indieweb

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as someone who also at times has spent way too much time fuzzing about with details: get *something* online first IMHO. And the great thing about your personal site is that you only have to care about the bits you care about right now: If your mood shifts from "I want to fiddle with template design" to "I find design annoying right now", you can drop it and pick it back up later if you want. But having *something* online is important because it enables picking the next goal by mood.
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I've found #Hugo to have a significant learning curve. I started with my own theme and did struggle a bit building a mental model of it.
#hugo


Thanks to technological issues today, a meeting I tried to have this morning with someone who was already frustrated with me and my office is now scheduled for next week.

I am ~70% confident I can handle that meeting in a way that helps them feel heard and on the same page, but I'm definitely nervous about it regardless.



I'm on the lookout for gentle instrumental #music I can put on for my daughter at bedtime. Piano, violin/viola/cello, acoustic guitar, flute—I'm open to all sorts, I'm just looking for a slower tempo and a relatively subdued soundscape.

Any recommendations?

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Moby's "Long Ambients 1 - Sleep" is pretty good for this.


It's November 4 and it's 61°F here in the Willamette Valley.

This is so not okay.



Today's the first day I've felt an autumnal chill in the air.


fuck yeah


I went to see a local community theatre's staging of A Gentleman's Guide to Love and Murder recently, which puts me in a terrible dilemma.

On the one hand, I would really love to write a review and put my critical thoughts into words. Art criticism is a hobby I don't often get to indulge.

On the other hand, damn near nobody who would read it here would have any context at all, unless they were familiar with the script.

This might just remain one I chat with my wife about. 😆

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@Spencer Just write it on your blog and link it here, that’s what I do with my ramblings nobody cares about!


I got an #AeroPress this weekend and made my first cup this morning, using James Hoffmann's recipe, and… yum.

Dang, I can make #coffee this tasty at home now?

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I love the Aeromatic app for different recipes to try:
apps.apple.com/au/app/aeromati…
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I had to make myself a second cup at lunch because it was just so goshdarn good.


Home Assistant now supports wake words, which means it's possible to build a totally open-source, local-only smart assistant.

Home Assistant is such a rad project, and I'm so glad it exists. Time to get scheming about building some devices.

#homeassistant #homeautomation #SmartHome

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Call me a grump, but generally speaking, I'd prefer the online vendors I buy from to send me exactly what I ordered with no extra trinkets.

Business card? Fine, I'll recycle it.

Sticker? I'd rather you didn't.

Magnet? Tiny branded rubber duck? Get the fuck out of here. You're just creating waste.

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Candy is... sweet, and less of an issue because it's easier to consume non-wastefully, but still I'd prefer nothing. A bargain-basement lollipop or Tootsie Roll rarely adds to my day, and usually goes to candy bowl Purgatory. It can stay there for months, if not years.
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friendica (DFRN) - Link to source
Spencer
Okay, that's cute.




cool cool cool
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This is either for Microsoft 365 and is just for the OneDrive/Office stuff, or there is going to be a serious question on whether a windows monopoly can be fixed.


crowdfunding

The artist behind Webcomic Name, the cute abstract comic where almost every strip ends with "oh no", is in a protracted legal battle for ownership of their own intellectual property against notorious board game publishing assholes Golden Bell Studios.

They're raising funds to support their case.

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software gripe
WHY, Friendica, have you stopped link previews properly for attached links? 😡


I've been eyeing new #fediverse projects lately: specifically, @Bonfire and @Firefish.

I'm excited to see the possibility space grow, though I'll admit I'm having a hard time fully grokking both of these apps and meaningfully comparing them.

@Sean Tilley, you're my go-to when it comes to understanding different Fedi apps, and I know you're on Firefish right now. Would you be able to shed some light on what distinguishes Firefish from where Bonfire is headed? Extra points if you can compare to Friendica, because that's what I'm currently driving.



Today's amateur sysadmin challenge: my server accesses an external hard drive elsewhere on the network that is shared via NFS.

Presently, when I try to use rsync to sync a directory from the server to the external hard drive, I get a series of permission errors.

I'm gonna have to figure out what the appropriate permissions are to permit this behavior, but I'm not quite sure where to start. (Is it permissions set on the NFS server?)



exasperated sarcasm

my favorite part of working with health insurance is when they decide you should be able to complete therapy in X sessions, and if you don't, you don't deserve to be compensated for your services anymore

fantastic system we've got here, just phenomenal



It's an "Oops! All Towers" month for damn near everyone I care about, it seems.


Caring for a 7-month old is somehow the least difficult and stressful part of my life right now.


For better or worse, DC and I are still locked together in this unhappy marriage, perhaps for all time.

But you aren’t.

If I understand the law correctly (and be advised that copyright law is a mess; purposely vague and murky, and no two lawyers – not even those specializing in copyright and trademark law – agree on anything), you have the rights to make your Fables movies, and cartoons, and publish your Fables books, and manufacture your Fables toys, and do anything you want with your property, because it’s your property.

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Having just seen someone register a new account on mastodon.social and spend a half hour harassing a single specific person... jeeeesus, some people.

(I reported the user to mastodon.social moderation already, so hopefully they move swiftly.)

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I see behavior like this and always wonder how a person gets so twisted up that they will dedicate an hour of their life to hunting down posts by their ideological enemies and not merely arguing with them, but posting vile harassment and death threats.

What a miserable and pathetic existence.



unity shit

Unity has absolutely no incentive to accurately report installations to developers. They have no incentive to transparently distinguish between fraud and legitimate installations. On the contrary, they have a perverse incentive to do the exact opposite.

Why the fuck would anyone trust Unity's numbers?

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@Spencer I was wondering how they collect this information. Does every game shipped with Unity phones home when it's installed? Ran? Is this another IP range to block on a Pi-Hole or similar filtering device?


alcohol

An old-fashioned is my go-to drink for determining if a bar is worth shit.

It's an incredibly simple drink, and if you can't be bothered to actually do it right, then why should I trust you to make anything else?

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friendica (DFRN) - Link to source
Spencer
alcohol
Oooh, good call. I want to experiment more with the Last Word template; it's a really versatile skeleton for a drink.


Only Murders in the Building feels like it should be a mildly amusing, forgettable comedy, but it's actually one of the best written, most quietly daring shows I've seen in quite some time.


I'm trying to wire up my new BL-Touch, and apparently, BL-Touch manufacturers don't care a single whit for wiring consistency. The order of my wires appears to be entirely unlike any other BL-Touch anyone else has ever written about.

At this point, I'm barely doing more than pulling them out and reconnecting them at random, in hopes one configuration will work. 😩

#3Dprinting

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is there more than 4? Couldn't be at most 2 different configurations they'd use. You got a picture?


A quick personal note: I've hung up my hat and stepped down from my role as @Null Signal Games' Community Manager so I can better devote my time to other priorities like my family. I'll still be part of the org, but in a smaller, less public-facing role. 🙂


Boy howdy, do I not want to get a new car.


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"if we don't heap shame and disproportionate punishments on our children, how will they ever learn that actions have consequences???"

I am so. sick. of this thinking. 😡

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how. how do you look at a beautiful, curious baby exploring the world, who grows into an excited, eager (and, I'm sure, overwhelming) toddler, and think, "it is my job to break this person"

"how will they possibly function in this world if I do not humiliate and punish them"

I don't. get. it. HOW.

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Unless we challenge our own assumptions and beliefs and learn a different way of being and relating to those in our lives, I believe we simply perpetuate the normalized beliefs and behaviors in our own parenting that we heard and experienced growing up. To me, it looks like a mechanism by which generational traumas are passed down.

The ghouls continue to recreate their ghoulish world with the tools they learned as infants and children to feel loved and safe among those that raised them, in whatever ways a child learns. Until any of us have the space and support to question those tools and the beliefs they're built on, we live our adult lives dealing with the world using the problem solving abilities, motivations, and world view of our 5-year old self, +/- a few years.

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